We have been thinking long and hard about doing a regular post for 2012, something that would be fun, but informative and that we could all have a bit of a laugh at and yet still get some good and useful information from.
Soooooo..... After a lot of thought, input and discussion we have decided to embark on quite a project.
For this year we will be taking you around the world (not literally) as we attempt to bring you
'52 wedding rituals/traditions in 52 weeks'
A little ambitious? Yes probably
Can we pull it off? Not sure, but we are going to give it one hell of a go!
So basically we will be posting 1 ritual/tradition every week in the form of a combination of video blogs, write ups a pictures. These will be from all over the world with some common ones you may have seen and some that will definitely have you laughing. If you have one you could recommend that you would like us to re-enact then send it through to us and we will give it a go.
We really hope you will all join us on this journey over the next 52 weeks, because we can't do it without you and we intend to have a great time!
Soooooo..... After a lot of thought, input and discussion we have decided to embark on quite a project.
For this year we will be taking you around the world (not literally) as we attempt to bring you
'52 wedding rituals/traditions in 52 weeks'
A little ambitious? Yes probably
Can we pull it off? Not sure, but we are going to give it one hell of a go!
So basically we will be posting 1 ritual/tradition every week in the form of a combination of video blogs, write ups a pictures. These will be from all over the world with some common ones you may have seen and some that will definitely have you laughing. If you have one you could recommend that you would like us to re-enact then send it through to us and we will give it a go.
We really hope you will all join us on this journey over the next 52 weeks, because we can't do it without you and we intend to have a great time!
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Week 1. Cup of Life Ceremony:
Week 3. Ring Warming Ceremony:
This is a fairly common, but very sweet ritual that you may have seen done before in a ceremony. It is simple, easy and doesn’t require any elaborate props in order to pull it off beautifully and successfully.Basically prior to the ceremony taking place, the rings are placed into a small lace or chiffon bag ensuring the top of the bag is tied tightly so they are not able to come out as it is passed among the guests. Click here for complete detail and wording...
Week 4. Giving of the Bride:
The Giving Away of the bride has a long history. Nowadays we often like to make it the perfect occasion when the father- daughter relationship is acknowledged. It also allows the families and friends of the bride and groom show their approval of the marriage. Click here for complete detail and wording...
Week 5. Handfasting Ceremony:
Week 6: Traditional Smoking Ceremony:
Week 7. Leap Year Proposal:
This week, given that we are in a leap year and I’m sure many of you have been hearing lots of wonderful stories about the tradition of leap year proposals, as we have, we thought we would do a little post about this age old tradition which is widely known and definitely a favourite. Click here for complete detail ...
Week 8. Greek Wedding Traditions:
This week we are taking a look at the Greek Tradition where the bride smashes a glass as she leaves her parents home to signify that once smashed it can never return to it’s former glory, symbolising the couples wish to never return to the time before they shared their lives together.
This week we are taking a look at the Greek Tradition where the bride smashes a glass as she leaves her parents home to signify that once smashed it can never return to it’s former glory, symbolising the couples wish to never return to the time before they shared their lives together.
Week 9. Unity Candle Lighting Ceremony:
The unity candle ceremony is seen more and more frequently throughout the weddings of today. The ceremony symbolizes the pledge of unity between the bride and groom and the merging of two families. As a general rule there are 3 candles required to perform a unity candle ceremony which consist of 1 large centre candle and 2 slim (or taper) candles.
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The Russians have some absolutely fantastic wedding traditions, some performed in the lead up to the marriage, some during the ceremony and some that come after. The traditions of many cultures often started way back in their past and have evolved over time to more modern versions of the originals, while some have sadly faded away altogether. Click here for complete detail ...
Koreans are big on forms of representation when it comes to rituals in ceremony and also engage in a tradition whereby a pair of wooden ducks (representing the bride and the groom) are taken by the couple and placed in the home they will share after the marriage.If the ducks are placed to face each other, then it represents that the couple are happy with each other and are on good terms, but if the ducks are faced outward, with their tails facing then it signals that perhaps there is unhappiness between them.
Week 10. Ransom of the Bride:
The Russians have some absolutely fantastic wedding traditions, some performed in the lead up to the marriage, some during the ceremony and some that come after. The traditions of many cultures often started way back in their past and have evolved over time to more modern versions of the originals, while some have sadly faded away altogether. Click here for complete detail ...
Week 11. A Korean Wedding Tradition
Koreans are big on forms of representation when it comes to rituals in ceremony and also engage in a tradition whereby a pair of wooden ducks (representing the bride and the groom) are taken by the couple and placed in the home they will share after the marriage.If the ducks are placed to face each other, then it represents that the couple are happy with each other and are on good terms, but if the ducks are faced outward, with their tails facing then it signals that perhaps there is unhappiness between them.
Click here for complete detail ...
The libation ritual is a traditional part of ceremony practised by the Greeks, Romans, Africans and Burmese Buddhists to name only a few. The term ‘libation’ actually means ‘the pouring of a liquid offering as a religious ritual’ and this liquid may be any number of things. Click here for complete detail ...
A pagan wedding ceremony is often quite different from a normal civil wedding ceremony. It is rich with colour, natural elements and acknowledges the four directions East (Air), South (Fire), West (Water) and North (Earth) as being an essential component that requires recognition (usually at the very beginning of the ceremony) along with many other ritualistic sentiments. Click here for complete detail ...
This week we are looking at a traditional stone ceremony, although it is not commonly used in todays weddings it is an important part of Australian history.
The ritual we are sharing with you today involves all of the family and friends in attendance. They not only take part, but are asked to contribute and it is this contribution that sets the foundation for the ritual.
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Week 18. Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue:
Week 21. Silent Flower Ritual:
The silent flower ritual is one of the simplest and most basic rituals that may be included in a wedding ceremony, but it’s significance and emotional depth are long remembered.The silent flower ritual brings significance to the roles of the mothers on this special day, that may otherwise go unspoken and to all that they have contributed in the lives of the couple present.
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Week 22. Handfasting with Children
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An acknowledgement is a great way of paying respect to those who have come before us and can be done whether or not you have an indigenous background. The two examples here are from one particular area, using specific groups, but wherever you are in the world, you can easily use similar wording to pay respect and honour the traditional owners of the land on which you stand.
The ‘Wishing Stone' Ceremony is a wonderfully inclusive ritual to incorporate into your big day and is great for not just weddings, but any ceremony you may be considering.
Week 12. Libation Ceremony:
The libation ritual is a traditional part of ceremony practised by the Greeks, Romans, Africans and Burmese Buddhists to name only a few. The term ‘libation’ actually means ‘the pouring of a liquid offering as a religious ritual’ and this liquid may be any number of things. Click here for complete detail ...
Week 13. Pagen Rituals - Significance of the Broom:
A pagan wedding ceremony is often quite different from a normal civil wedding ceremony. It is rich with colour, natural elements and acknowledges the four directions East (Air), South (Fire), West (Water) and North (Earth) as being an essential component that requires recognition (usually at the very beginning of the ceremony) along with many other ritualistic sentiments. Click here for complete detail ...
Week 14. A Coin / Arras Ceremony:
The Arras or coin ceremony consists of 13 golden coins which are exchanged back and forth between the bride and groom to symbolize wealth and success within their marriage.
Week 15. The Seven Steps Ritual:
A Hindu ceremony, in most cases is quite extravagant and beautiful. It incorporates many different rituals and traditions and is often filled with chanting and Sanskrit blessings that began in a time long ago. This ceremony is known as 'samskara' and in India, it can last days or even weeks. Click here for complete detail ...
Week 16. Stone Ceremony
This week we are looking at a traditional stone ceremony, although it is not commonly used in todays weddings it is an important part of Australian history.
Week 17. Earth Ritual:
The ritual we are sharing with you today involves all of the family and friends in attendance. They not only take part, but are asked to contribute and it is this contribution that sets the foundation for the ritual.
Click here for complete wording and detail ...
Week 18. Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue:
One of the most common and recognised wedding traditions has to be “Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue” – and if you are going all the way then “And a Sliver Sixpence in her Shoe.”
Week 19. Blackening of the Bride:
Yes it is pretty much exactly what it sounds like – blackening of the bride. In this Scottish ritual/tradition the poor bride is subjected to being covered in some disgusting concoctions and substances all in the name of easing her worries.
Yes it is pretty much exactly what it sounds like – blackening of the bride. In this Scottish ritual/tradition the poor bride is subjected to being covered in some disgusting concoctions and substances all in the name of easing her worries.
Week 20. Giving of the Bride - A Modern Version:
A bride I recently worked with decided that she would like to explore the tradition of ‘the giving of the bride’. She desperately wanted to have the well known tradition as part of her ceremony, but she wasn’t happy with the traditional wording or the implication that she was something to be ‘given away’
A bride I recently worked with decided that she would like to explore the tradition of ‘the giving of the bride’. She desperately wanted to have the well known tradition as part of her ceremony, but she wasn’t happy with the traditional wording or the implication that she was something to be ‘given away’
Week 21. Silent Flower Ritual:
The silent flower ritual is one of the simplest and most basic rituals that may be included in a wedding ceremony, but it’s significance and emotional depth are long remembered.The silent flower ritual brings significance to the roles of the mothers on this special day, that may otherwise go unspoken and to all that they have contributed in the lives of the couple present.
Click here for complete detail ...
Some time ago we brought you a version of a 'handfasting' which has been very popular on the blog, so we thought we would follow it up with a fabulous way of including children in this wonderfully meaningful ritual.
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Week 23. Acknowledgement of Traditional Owners of the Land
Week 24. Wishing Stones
Week 25. A Fishy Korean Ritual
In this Korean tradition the poor groom is subjected to some pretty interesting antics. Usually done in the spirit of providing him with increased strength for the wedding night, this ritual begins after the main ceremony.
Week 26. Traditional Handfast Ceremony Wording
To accompany our handfasting ceremony video we thought it would be helpful to provide you with the a couple of the more popular wording variations.
**PLEASE NOTE: These videos and posts are provided for information purposes only. They are not actual wedding ceremonies and therefore are designed specifically to give people an idea of how a ritual maybe performed, allowing them to then amend it to suit their own style. All of the people in these videos are merely playing a part.
I love this list but where are the others?
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